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One of my most memorable Christmas Eves was spent in a barn on a cold night. Horses nibbling hay. The occasional Nickerson. A candle, in violation of barn rules. Friends and cheeses and sweets. Some wine. A recollection of a much earlier Christmas Eve near an inn with no room.

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Like, i hate auto correct. Nickerson? Nicker. You know the nose noise!

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Ha ha, I was going to ask you what a Nickerson was ... I was immediately going for a regional variation on a whiskey cocktail, but that just tells you where my head is at

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Tom and Mark, please get together and supply the recipe and directions for making and shaking a ‘Nickerson’ - you owe it to anyone reading this thread! 🤣 You’ve both made a start on listing some of the elements already - hay, candlewax, cheeses, sweets, wine and whiskey. No cookies...

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Dang it, Rebecca beat me to it!!! 😂 🥃🐴

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I'll need to consult with Bond Girl Bride to concoct a recipe. Tom will provide the whiskey.

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Was it an impromptu gathering or planned that way? Either way, it sounds so lovely.

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Planned, actually. A meeting of two families and very, very simple. It was lovely.

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Lovely piece Bryn, and it’s helped me think about my “Christmas” piece coming up this weekend. No cookies, just Snoopy.

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Thanks Tom! Looking forward to reading your holiday piece. (It’s a toss-up between Snoopy and Muppet Family Christmas as my faves.)

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Gorgeous post, Bryn - I’m feeling festive already! My mum gave me a jar of homemade mincemeat yesterday - I can’t wait to turn it into mince pies!

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Thanks Rebecca 🥰 I need to make some mincemeat. Only my sister and I like it, but I have to have it every year. We do it with the fruit only; but there’s a version here that has venison in it. No thank you! Mincemeat is spicy and boozy and sweet.

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I need to be honest here: I don't actually eat sweet things, but I LOVE the process, the smell and the warmth of Christmas baking! I'm in charge of making our family Christmas pudding this year, too - again, it's not for me, but the scent of Christmas in the kitchen - wow!

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Oh I love this. So many good Chrisymas memories that I'm sure are shinier because distance has smoothed the sharp edges. And yet, I want to remember the happy times and not the times that have broken my heart.

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Exactly, Sarah! Thank you ☺️ I could think of a few rougher holidays, but who wants to do that? If anything, they make the other days shinier 🥰

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I’ve been struggling with the festive feeling this year - probably because the weather has been so whack? I have my decorations up! I’ve been wearing my Christmas dresses! I’ve watched three terrible Christmas movies and two good ones. I built my Christmas Lego. I’m faithfully doing my advent calendar. And there’s no reason otherwise as to why my festive spirit is flagging. I even finished my Christmas shopping. But...waiting for the quiet joy. It will come.

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